(non RC) WTF: Girlfriend. got any girls to into? =)

[chiadennis]

You see, I snore so loud and when I wake up.... the whole room gets too quiet... and my wife will wake up... I don't understand, I thought it works the other way round. You know, "too much noise" = "cannot sleep".

According to her, she use this as a gauge to know whether I'm still alive when she hear me snoring.... I ever got woken up by her, once, and she asked me whether I'm alright.... The reason, she didn't hear me snore....

That's a good one.... still alive.

[yongsinchee]

Dennis, it is true... You ask my wife the next time you see her....

Anyway back to the topic. Pixeldixel, there are different ways of dating the girl out.

1. Groups outing, where you go out in a big group just to enjoy each other company. This is good if you are "advertising" yourself. At the same time, identifying possible targets. Striking a conversation with the other parties is easier since no one is attached to no specific person. Can speak any topic in general, except personal ones. Good option to take if you just wanting to know the other party better with being obvious.

2. Group Dating (pairs dating). Preferable to keep it to 4 ppl (2 pairs), at most 6 ppl. At this stage, you and the other party are kind of agreeable with each other company but still not comfortable going out alone. It helps if she know the other pair well, so she can confide with the other female companion. This is less stressful on the relationship, since there is a distraction (the other couple) for her and yourself.

3. Single Pair. Just you and her alone... where you get to know and learn about each other character and funny habits. And learn how to work around them.

Possible group of people you can start with:-
1. Your younger sister/s friends.
2. Your friends' younger sisters.
3. Your cousins' friends.
4. Your colleagues or their friends.
5. Your flying buddies' sister or relatives.....
6. etc.

You have to do your part by participating and socialising, instead of waiting for things to happen. If you keep flying RC during your spare time, then I think you may not find a partner if you choose this avenue.

Since you have to spent some of your free time socialising and less time on flying..... Can I fly your planes....

[windgod]

uncle here give advice.

whoever your wife is , and whether they like RC or not.
The moment you got a kid, no more RC. like it or not.
Don't believe? mark my word. I have seen so many cases and thats the end.

It is up to you.

if you still really want to come back again for this hobby, wait until your children at least 17 first.

[simonwoo]

Haha then my group of buddies really exceptional case leow.. Most of us have young kids between 1-4 years old, and all still fly at least once to twice a week!

[yongsinchee]

Windgod. You got to play with words here. Officially I will tell my wife.

1. I buy my first plane for my son. But I will test it first.

2. I buy the second plane for my son, because it is easier to fly than the first. Later on, the second plane, and the third plane, etc.

3. I buy a better controller for my son, because it is better than the first one. So he will not have a problem when he decides to fly it. (Don't know when that will be)

4. I've to fly the planes, just in case my son needs me to teach him. (Presently, I can only teach him the art of crashing.....)

5. I need to buy more batteries just in case my son needs more flying time, when he decide to fly the planes. (Don't know when that will be.) Better to be prepare.

6. I buy more toys, from US, for my sons to play.

You get the drift......

[yongsinchee]

Just to add on.....

I told my wife....

1. I don't smoke.
2. I don't drink.
3. I don't take drugs.
4. I don't gamble.
5. I don't womanize.

I only fly RC plane. So which would you prefer? But I do add, that I do my part (small, small part only) in doing the housework.

[nixaad]

congratulations bro! thats real cool! was always doubtful about relationships that started off with these online chat mediums. MIRC chatting to me was such a repetitive process:

1st qn: Hi intro pls / or Hi asl?
2nd qn: what are your hobbies?

Thanks pixey, it started out in a chat room, been hanging out that chatroom since 1993. Good for me, the chat room is quite active & lively back then, no crappy chat room I can assure you. Also once or twice a month we'd go out and meet face to face with each other and had fun, dinner or karaoke or even Hari Raya gathering. That is when I get to know my fiancee, the signs was there during the 'gathering' and we'd continued in PM over chatroom... the rest is history. Anyhoo, it's all luck to have found such good chatroom. OH! Btw, this >
1st qn: Hi intro pls / or Hi asl?
2nd qn: what are your hobbies?

LAME O SUXOR!! ROFLMAO!!!!

[Ghostfit]

Anyway, consider yourself fortunate to be able to sneak out and use the computer, at night.

I can't.... I cannot wake up and use the PC, at night. I did tried a few times, but was caught even before I can switch on the system.

I got a PC in the Bedroom ! ...but serve you right ! ...why you go and surf porno kenna caught by your wife !!!

[Heli_fanatic]

eh , got kids here la .

[plug&fly]

Ooops

Wrong thread. Too young for this.

[alex_bong]

haha

look like there's many ways out for dating, looking for GF

whoever your wife is , and whether they like RC or not.
The moment you got a kid, no more RC. like it or not.

Agreed.

Most of us have young kids between 1-4 years old, and all still fly at least once to twice a week

Agreed too

All is time management and always family come 1st.